When Family Enmeshment Leads to Ambivalence and Betrayal in Adult Romantic Relationships: Helping Clients Unburden Inappropriate Guilt and Obligation
Family system therapists inform us that there can indeed be too much closeness in a family. Enmeshed family systems demand obligatory loyalty leaving family members wishing to chart their own course feeling guilty and torn between their wishes and their families' implicit and explicit demands of them. Normal developmental separation, differentiation, and emancipation are disrupted. When one of the adult children is enmeshed specifically with a parent additional difficulties arise in the unfolding of relational capacity and sexual development. As a result, they become the surrogate husband or...Read more wife to a lonely parent. Romantic relationships suffer and spouses and partners of enmeshed adults occupy a secondary role to the enmeshed adult's parents creating a cascade of relationship distress and difficulties. Addictions are common as they offer a perceived escape from the excessive burdens associated with enmeshment. Less...
Learning Objectives
- Identify and assess for enmeshment in clients and learn best practices in how to engage the client in breaking through denial and come to acceptance of the problem.
- Describe the role of enmeshment in the development of addictions and needed recovery process.
- Evaluate the impact of parental enmeshment on the spouse or partner and the romantic relationship and best practices to assist in managing the impact.
Target Audience
Learning Levels
- All Levels
Tuesday, January 20, 2026
09:00 AM PST - 10:30 AM PST
About the speaker
Agenda
CE Information - Earn 1.5 CE Credit Hours
CE Approvals
Joint Accreditation
American Psychological Association
New York State Education Department's State Board for Social Work
New York Education Department for Licensed Mental Health Counselors
New York State Education Department's State Board for Psychology
New York State Education Department's State Board for Marriage and Family Therapy
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